if you don't ask...

We go along on our journey and at some point, we realize that we have learned a lot, we know a lot, we use a lot of what we know to make progress, to find our way forward.  And maybe there is a moment along the way that we hit an issue, a “speed bump”, a challenge – something that we don’t know or have a need to understand or it just is not going right.  All too often we stop there, we can blame nerves, the risk of embarrassment – whatever we want to call it.  Bottom line is that when we don’t ask we know for sure that the answer will be no.  So, let’s not leave anything that we intend to do (or know) with a “no”, unless that is the answer we want.  Time to ask….yes that is for sure. 
 
Loving life when I don’t get the answer no